The things I like about rowing, are that (1) it is low-impact, and can be done well even with many maladies that make running and other aerobic exercises difficult, (2) you see great improvement from consistent daily workouts, and (3) there is a
competition on-line in which you can participate for free.
And until Charlie became injured, it was fun to have a buddy on a/p to compare times and successes with. I think you should get a Concept II for both you and Mary. You'd be beating my times in the first season, which begins May 1.
Yeah we paid hundreds to go over to Medinah last fall and watch the Ryder Cup. A very memorable day. There were so many people that all roads within 5 miles of the country club were closed, and everyone bused in from parking lots at O'Hare. We took a train from downtown and walked from the little Medinah station in the bucolic countryside.
Golf is an expensive sport. Unlike running, biking or XC skiing, you cannot play golf without paying. So the sport attracts people with money, sometimes lots of money. At the same time, there's not many sports where you can stand 5' from the best players in the game and watch them perform your own sport, at levels you never knew existed. Watching it on TV just doesn't have that immediacy or personal contact.
I used to live in the southeast, in Winter Park, Florida. And planning for "Masters Weekend" was a major annual social event even there, hundreds of miles from Augusta, Georgia where the Masters is held. Many people drove up to the Augusta area, watched it on TV, hob-nobbed around town, and partied. You've heard of "Birkie Fever," but you have no idea until you see "Masters Fever....."